Family Law
- Property and Debt Division
- Custody
- Visitation
- Child Support
- Spousal Maintenance
- Paternity
- Adoption
- Termination of Parental Rights
- Attorney Fees
The emotional part of many divorces is very real and very significant. If the emotional impact of your divorce is dominating your mind and energy, I encourage my clients to find a good counselor, minister, or even a friend. But friends may not really be up to the task. For good reason most of your friends aren't able or don't want to point out where you messed up, or how to go about improving the situation.
If you don't want a divorce, you can sometimes leverage the other person into counseling. You can also slow the legal process down to buy time to possible increase chances for reconciliation, but a marriage is a legal partnership, and if one side wants out, you will ultimately not be able to stop it.
Indiana is a "no fault" divorce state, and thus extra-marital relationships will generally have little or no impact on divorce issues, unless this third person can be proven to be a particularly bad influence or danger to the children, or you can prove large sums of money were wasted by your spouse on that person.
Property and Debt Division
The presumptive stating point is a 50/50 division of the net assets and debt. That presumption can be rebutted based upon many factors, including if there is a significant difference in income, or if one person owned substantially more property when the relationship began, or received an inheritance during the relationship, or one party has wasted a significant amount of assets. If there is a difference of opinion on property value, appraisals may be necessary. Unless an agreement can be made, documentation and details are necessary to be prepared to go to court. Making sure you get possession of particularly important items of personal property, records, or financial sums can be worth immediate self-help on your part. I'm not talking about any illegal activity, but making sure the other person does not hide or destroy important assets or documents.
Custody
Fights, like almost all trials, depend upon what facts you can prove in the courtroom, not just what you know. I have a 2-page outline on how to prepare for a custody case that I would be glad to provide to you. If the facts you can prove do not clearly establish which parent is the better custodian, hiring a psychologist to do a custody evaluation can be very helpful, but will usually cost $2,500 or more, depending who is hired.
I have been through many custody fights, and I can say without hesitation, that to fight a custody case with half effort is a waste of money, unless you're doing it as a negotiating strategy to achieve a better visitation, support or property division. You better get serious or don't bother. Unless you have some rather strong evidence, if the other side doesn't back down, 20 hours of my time is usually the minimum necessary to go through a custody fight, and 40 or more hours is quite possible.
Estimating how much work a contested case will require can be very difficult. It's not like building a house. It's like building a house without knowing where all the right materials are, or even if you can get them, while somebody is trying to knock your house down.
Joint legal
custody, with one parent having primary physical custody, simply means both parents have full access to communicate with the children's' doctors, teachers, counselors, etc., and the non-primary physical custody parent is to be consulted regarding all major educational, health and religious issues. That doesn't mean the non-primary physical custody parent has veto powers, just to be told about what is going on. The Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines (on the internet) discuss this in more detail. Granting joint legal custody is the preference of most judges today, unless there is strong evidence one parent is not a good parent or is a problem to deal with.
Joint physical
custody can mean a 50/50 division of time between parents, or almost any other arrangement. The Court will approve almost any agreement that parents might make, unless the judge believes it would be detrimental to the child(ren) in some way.
Visitation
The Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines can be found on the internet. This is the presumptive visitation schedule a court will order. Alternating weekends from Friday at 6:00 PM to Sunday at 6:00 PM, one evening a week, an alternating holiday and birthday schedule, and half the summer, is a quick summary of those rules. Shorter, more frequent visits are listed for children under 3 years old. As with custody, any visitation schedule upon which parents agree will usually be approved by the court, unless the judge believes the schedule will be detrimental to the kids in some way.
If parents are living a long distance apart, visitation is usually half of Christmas break, part of spring and fall breaks, half or more of the summer, and when the parent is in the area where the children live. Cost of transportation is usually split, or the parent that pays may get a credit to lower child support.
Supervised visitation is possible, but can be difficult to get a judge to order unless you have convincing evidence the visiting parent is a danger to the child(ren), or incompetent in some significant way. It's all about what evidence you have.
Review the Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines for more detail, but there guidelines can be modified by the court any time the judge believes it's in the children's best interest to do so.
Child Support
The Indiana Child Support Guidelines can also be found on the internet. Judges are going to enforce these guidelines the vast majority of the time. If you have both parents' average weekly gross income (including overtime), child care costs, the marginal cost of covering the kids on health insurance, and the number of yearly overnight visitations the noncustodial parent will have, you can run the formula for yourself, or I can do it during our initial consultation. Unless it is in writing that both parents are to pay a portion of specific expenses (i.e. sports, school, dance, etc.) weekly child support is the paying parent's total financial obligation (other than visitation). If the parents agree to a support amount different than what the Guidelines indicate, the court will generally approve such an agreement, unless the judge thinks one side is being taken advantage of, or the support level is not in the children's best interest. Child support ends at 19 years of age, but an obligation to help with, post high school educational expenses can carry through a 4-year college degree.
Spousal Maintenance
Indiana has no alimony, but between the filing of the divorce and it being finalized (there is a minimum waiting period of 60 days, but it can be a lot longer if people are fighting), a spouse with insufficient income or assets to be self-supporting, can receive temporary maintenance from the other spouse. Whether, or how much, maintenance could be ordered depends on the specific budgets of the parties. 50% of the opposing spouses' net income is usually the maximum a court will order (including child support).
Educational maintenance is a possibility if one spouse received educational benefits during the relationship that the other did not.
Permanent maintenance (potentially for the rest of a person's life) is possible if one spouse is mentally or physically disabled from working, and insufficient assets exist to care for that person. Medical evidence is usually required to get permanent maintenance.
If children are involved, there are 3 other issues: Custody, visitation, and child support.
Paternity
DNA testing is usually conclusive if someone is not the biological father, and over 99% probability if he is. Most of what is stated about divorce is applicable to paternity cases, other than property and debt issues, where there is no presumption of joint property or 50?50 division of assets. Nevertheless, any assets accumulated during co-habitation can be subject to division if the judge believes it is fair or equitable. Educational and permanent maintenance are not usually granted in paternity cases unless there has been a lengthy period of co-habitation.
Adoption
Agreed adoptions are a relatively simple procedure. Waiting for and obtaining a home study (that gets sent to the Judge) by an authorized person or agency can be the biggest hurdle in money and time-delay. Home studies are usually not required if the child has already lived with the adopting parent for a lengthy period of time. Many agreed adoptions can be completed in 2-4 hours of attorney time.
Contested adoptions occur when a parent fails to have significant communication with a child for at least a year, without legal justification (e.g. the custodial parent doing things to keep the child from the non-custodial parent, international military service, jail time when the child is too young for letters, physical or mental disability, etc.).
Adoptions are permanent, and divorce by an adopting parent causes no change in that person's obligation to support the child or right to have visitation or custody.
Guardianships
A guardian is a person, or institution, appointed by a court to manage the affairs of another individual. The guardian may be given the authority to manage personal and/or financial matters.
The fact that someone has some sort of diagnosis, or disability does not equate to the need for a guardian. The primary test for determining the need for guardianship focuses on the ability to make decisions, and to communicate the decisions once made. Most guardianships focus on the ability to make decisions regarding living arrangements, medical care, vocational and educational services, ancillary professional services, care for dependents, and managing finances.
Individual guardians must be over the age of 18, not been convicted of a felony, and have not adjudicated disabled.
A court must determine, based on the evidence presented, that (1) the individual is incapacitated according to the law and guardianship is appropriate; (2) the individual or entity to act as guardian is qualified; and (3) the authority granted to the is necessary for the safety of the individual.
Notice of the date, time and place of the guardianship proceedings is given to any interested parties, family members, proposed guardian, etc., in order that they can be present at the hearing if they choose.
The court may modify, revoke, or terminate the guardianship if the individual’s ability to make and communicate decisions is demonstrated to the court. Guardianship of a minor ends when the child turns 18 years old.
Termination of Parental Rights
Cannot occur unless the parent goes a full year without substantial communication with the child, without some valid reason (See Indiana Code), and there is another person prepared to fill the terminated parent's responsibilities by adoption. Agreements that a parent will not have visitation and not be required to pay support can work, so long as either parent doesn't change his/her mind and decide to fight for support or visitation. Support will be imposed automatically if visitation is granted.
Attorney Fees
In all family law cases, the court has the power to order the opposing side to pay attorney fees, but this usually only occurs if the opposing party take a position in court that the Judge believes to be baseless, or if the opposing party has a lot more money. Agreed divorces can many times be done withing 2 hours of my time ($500). Contested custody cases can take dozens of hours of time. Once I have understanding of your particular factual and legal situation, and what you want me to do, my normal practice is to quote you a retainer to cover my minimum work estimate, or a substantially higher set fee, if you prefer. If custody is not contested, but there is not an agreement on other issues, I will usually charge a 4 or 5-hour retainer, unless it is obvious that more time is necessary. Any over payment of by hourly retainer will be refunded when the case is over. I give itemized bills detailing what I did, broken down to a tenth of an hour.